HARDCORE.

old and young: dating.

I think that when someone dates someone who is significantly younger, they should know the price they have to pay. The younger person is going to start experiencing life and will grow and start to learn. Keep them on a long leash and they won’t go anywhere.

03.28.12 ♥ 2

there are a lot of pleasures to being alone.

but people are so caught up trying to find someone that they overlook that fact.

03.21.12 ♥ 3

dating so many people.

I, for one, am not much of a fan of dating so many people. I have this mentality that if you date so many people, others may have this notion that everyone already had you. In a sense, it is as if you lose your value because you hop from one person to another. You may be seen as cheap, easy and disposable. What also is a concern to me is that since you break up with and then continue dating so many people, it appears that maybe you are the problem. You seem to be the only common denominator in this math equation of relationships. Instead of jumping from one person to another just to relieve your loneliness, take some time to reflect on why your relationships keep fucking up. There’s probably something wrong with you when it comes to dating.

03.21.12 ♥ 6

“Don’t chase them, if they want you they’ll come to you.”

This is one of the stupidest things I’ve ever heard. You can’t just expect to wait for someone because they could be doing the exact same thing. You waiting for them while they are waiting for you just seems counterproductive. By playing this ridiculous waiting game, one person thinks the other person doesn’t care and then it will just lead to a big unnecessary mess. Then follows the whole dramatic bullshit. Get out of here. If you want them, just go for it.

03.21.12 ♥ 2

just because you’re sexually attracted to someone, does not mean they are boyfriend material.

duh.

03.19.12 ♥ 3

if you want “the-boy-next-door”

then go next door.

03.18.12 ♥ 2

Some Advice…

It’s annoying as fuck when someone says they really love a person and how this person is “the one” yet they have said this numerous times in previous relationships. I’m sure you will use this same line for the next faggot that comes your way.

It’s like the boy who cried wolf…eventually people will not care or not even believe you.

02.12.12 ♥ 1

expect vs reject.

I hate when I am infatuated with someone and they display mixed emotions or subtle signals. I hate that shit because I always have this internal conflict of whether I should go for it or not. Then it becomes this dilemma of trying not to fall into the “expect” or “reject” mentality.

“Expect” is when I don’t do anything and expect the other person to make the initiative.

“Reject” is when I don’t do anything because I am fearful of being rejected.

Either way I don’t do anything. I think this is why I lost so many opportunities with dudes.

GAY.

02.10.12 ♥ 1

“ Don’t play with a guy’s heart… he’s only got one. Play with his balls… he has two of those.

— Inspired by FlowEtik. <3

02.01.12 ♥ 2

“ Sex was really easy. There was sex everywhere. It didn’t really mean too much. Love, love was the hard thing to find. Even if you were looking for it, which not too many people were. And even if you found it, which not too many people did, even if it was right there in front of you. No; how could you see it with all the sex in the way?

— T.J. (Gia).

01.23.12 ♥ 0

“ Love at first sight is a result of too much to drink.

— unk.

01.11.12 ♥ 0

“ I’m not playing hard to get…I’m just not that into you.

— MC.

01.11.12 ♥ 5

An ordinary guy wouldn’t do.

11.19.11 ♥ 0